SINCERE ADVICE TO A TRUE QUEEN!!

SINCERE ADVICE TO A TRUE QUEEN!!
-Umme Muhammadh

Do you want to be the Queen of your home
Then become the Queen of Hearts of your Abode
Inculcate traits of good character and serve with a smile
Drag yourself day in and out like a servants life

Don't try to pick fault or change in their lifestyle
Give your hearts to them for a while
But fit in their shoes for a while

Be gentle, kind ,polite,merciful to them
never gossip ,backbite,hurt or break hearts or taunt them
Dont take their apple of their eyes away from them
Dont make their cream of custards against them

They bored pain,struggled hard educatived and strived
Married their apple of the eye and made you his wife
To have the contentment of being called grandma
Never serve to please them but always for the sake of Allah

You betray trust and never belong to them
Snatch paradise from the other half of your deen ,your gem
What if someone treated your mother the way you treat her
What if someone taunts your mother the way you taunt her

If u forgive Allah will forgive you
If u have mercy Allah will have mercy on you
Never be spendthrift ,careless,stingy because they know value for money
They have experience and indeed!you havent any

The one who pleases the creator ,Allah will please the creation
But when we try to please the creation we can please no one
A house is made of walls of bricks and cement
A home is made by a Queens taqwa,pleasant smile,love,unity and strength

If u still feel suppressed ,oppressed and depressed
Repent and use the swrd which changes destiny and unrest

The one who has the key to hearts of the duniya
can make this duniya also paradise InshaAllah

Rabbana hablana min azwajina wazurriyatina qurrata aayun waja alna lil mutaqeena imama