Monday 20 January 2014

Can bOys and girls be friends

Can boys and girls be "just friends?" Some people ask this question but i ask them "is it possible to be just friends?" "only if there is some problem with hormones they can remain just friends "i tell them because they cannot answer my question 

Husband and wife can be friends. Brothers and sisters can be friends BUT there is no concept of this inter-gender friendship that we see in society today. Allah is most knowing of what is best for us and He has forbidden this type of friendship so we must be careful of exposing ourselves to it.

No doubt it is from the footsteps of shaytaan due to what it leads to, Allah orders us "do not follow the footsteps of shaytaan" It breaks many marriages, destroys peace of homes, devastates the concept of marriage and makes zina free and easy remember zina is not only of the act of being with someone of opposite sex, but talking is zina of the ear and chatting is zina of the hands and heart and Prophet has been reported to have said the gust of which that close to the day of judgement zina will be rampant and when zina will be rampant it will be cheap and easy and marriages costly so people dont want to commit themselves to marriage but be free or search something extra with marriage and say we r just friends

may Allah guide us all and keep us on the road to siratul mustaqeem written by Umme muhammad.

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