Real LOve

Real LOve

Is not holding hands in public to show u r in love
But true love would be to sprinkle water with hands to wake for tahajjud prayers
True love would be to encourage each other towards piety and righteousness
real love is not holding hands and going to a movie
But real love is saving the spouse from falling in sin
True love is in understanding and tolerance for the sake of Allah
True love is not showing your wife to your friends and other non mehrams
True love is in Haya and modesty that both help each other to lower the gaze
True love is not in showing others you are happy through pics and status updates
But true love is to be truly happy and one can be truly happy when one obeys Allah and Allah is happy with them
written by @Umme Muhammad

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HAPPY MARRIAGE

Islamically and Alphabetically happy marriage inshaALLAH !! 

A ppreciate each other. 
B e best buddy and 
C ompanions who Compromise. Co-operate and create everlasting bonds
D iscover new things together. 
E ncourage each other for good deeds. 
F orgive and forget matters which cause distance. 
G aze into each others eyes. 
H old hands to work for spreading deen.
I nspire and intrigue each other towards Islam.
J oke and laugh, race each other have fun its sunnah
K eep each other’s secrets.
L ove with all your hearts for the sake of Allah alone.
M arvel at each other's talents it will crush your ego
N uture and nourish each other's soul.
O vercome problems together.
P ray for each other and the ummah too
Q uran your guide and motivator
R emember little things matter a lot
S unnah way of life in every juncture of life
T ake time for muhasibah
U nderstand and care deeply.
V alues and morals from lives of Sahaba to be implemented practically
W onder at the marvels of Allah’s creations together
X –change Islamic greetings
Y earn for pleasing the Creator
Z zzzz lesser and worship more

May Allah bless us and all of our sisters and brothers with a successful marriage! Aameen...
Written by-Umme Muhammad
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'Marriage of The Queen of the ladies in Jannah'

'Marriage of The Queen of the ladies in Jannah'

Fatimah (RA) was the youngest daughter of our beloved Prophet (SAWS). Out of all the children, he was the most beloved to him. He said, 'The Queen of the ladies in Jannat is Faatimah.' He also said, 'Faatimah is part of my body. Whoever grieves her, grieves me.'
When Faatimah (RA) reached the age of fifteen, proposals for her marriage began to come from high and responsible families. But the Prophet (SAWS) remained irresponsive.

Ali (RA), who was 21 at the time, says: It occurred to me that I should go and make a formal proposal, but then I thought, 'How could this be accomplished, for I possess nothing.' At last, encouraged by the Prophet's kindness, I went to him and expressed my intention to marry Faatima (Radhiyallaahu Anha). The Prophet (SAWS) was extremely pleased and asked, 'Ali! Do you possess anything to give her in Mahr?' I replied, 'Apart from a horse and an armour I possess nothing.'

The Prophet (SAWS) said, 'A soldier must, of course, have his horse. Go and sell away your armour.'

So, Ali (RA) went and sold his armour to Uthmaan (RA) for 480 Dirham and presented it to Rasulullah (SAWS). Bilaal (RA) was ordered by the Prophet (SAWS) to bring some perfume and a few other things and Anas (RA) was sent to call Abu Bakr, Uthmaan, Talhah, Zubayr with some companions from the Ansaar (Radhiallaahu Anhum).

When these men arrived and had taken their seats, the Prophet (SAWS) recited the Khutbah (sermon) of Nikaah and gave Faatimah (RA) in marriage to Ali (RA). He announced, 'Bear you all witness that I have given my daughter Faatimah in marriage to Ali for 400 Mithqaal of silver and Ali has accepted.' He then raised his head and made Dua saying, 'O Allah, create love and harmony between these two. Bless them and bestow upon them good children.' after the Nikaah, dates were distributed.

When the time came for Faatimah (RA) to go to Ali's (RA) house, she was sent without any clamour, hue and cry accompanied Umm Ayman (RA). After the ةesha Salaat, the Prophet (SAWS) went to their house, took permission and entered. He asked for a basin of water, put his blessed hands into it and sprinkled it on both Ali (RA) and Faatimah (RA) and made Dua for them.

The sovereign of both worlds gave his beloved daughter a silver bracelet, two Yemeni sheets, four mattresses, one blanket, one pillow, one cup, one hand-grinding mill, one bedstead, a small water skin and a leather pitcher.

In this simple fashion, the wedding of the daughter of the leader of the worlds was solemnised. In following this Sunnah method, a wedding becomes very simple and easy to fulfill.

Compiled by Umme Muhammad http://ummemuhammad.blogspot.in/
ref Women Around the Messenger

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