Monday 22 April 2013

ABUSED??

I had never thought that this will prevail and become so common that every house hold should be cautious. The danger could be lurking close by. We can never know if an elder sibling or daily milk man servant newspaper vendor or neighbor is the culprit of abusing your sweet innocent child. 

Sara six years old sweet child was playing in the verandah when her 13 year old neighbor came and kissed her on the lips. She was amused by his behavior and told her mother. She was shocked!! She became cautious of sending her child outside the house alone and even had to take precautions for travelling in the lift and leaving the child alone in the house. She feared reporting to her parents because she didn’t have any witness. 

We can never guess who can abuse the child, and whose child will be next. Not only girls boys too are victims of abuse. Sometimes teenager’s curiosity leads them to do the forbidden act with innocent children. This also is caused due to communication gap between parents and growing children. Often they resort to the net and end up with porn. Curiosity to do practically what they have seen increases and the end up being criminals. 

Always make children as small as two or two n half years old aware of the forbidden touch like 
1) No one whom you do not know should carry you or kiss you or shake hands 
2) Never accept any chocolate or gifts from strangers 
3) Never allow anyone to touch or see your private parts or chest. 
4) Always scream and kick the person and go to someone whom you can trust 
5) Repeat this every 2-3 months because smaller children may forget 

Let them know the trusted people like grand dad or a trusted uncle or their father himself and of course mother. If at all your child is abused ever he/she will relate to you their ordeal. Also be cautious if you see strange marks on your child’s cheeks or any other part. We need to be active and alert to prevent such things happening around. 


BY Umme Muhammad @all rights reserved

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